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Our willingness to understand others is the key to our miraculous ability to solve even the most difficult problems, change even dire situations and influence even the crappiest behavior to improve. I’ve described it as like turning a key, “snick” as the door clicks open.
However, the miracles depend on you knowing the truth for YOURSELF.
Here’s the thing. My words can inspire you that our connection to others may well be the source of miracles, but you don’t know whether that’s true or not, so those words don’t mean anything when the crap hits the fan in your own world.
The miracles depend on you knowing your own truth. When your own truth has become a profound, foundational truth that you know all the way to your bones – that’s when the miracles really get rolling.
So let’s check out one of those foundational truths that speeds thing up and see if we can get some miracles happening in your life. Here’s the question for you. Whatever has upset you lately, “Is it true or not, that being willing to understand others is a critical key to our own ability to change this upset – to create something new and wonderful that we want?”
I get it when willingness to understand others’ crappy behavior isn’t easy for us, even when miracles are at stake. Most of you will have had some of that openness and willingness to understand others blocked by life experiences. I certainly had. The violence I’d experienced as a child had me stuck in blaming others. Dammit why wouldn’t I blame them? I was just a child double dammit!
Even once I knew that understanding others was a key to my own success, I found it really hard to look past someone’s behavior to understand what was really going on. I’d get so caught up in me being right and them being wrong. But then I’d still be left with the stuckness of feeling crappy about their behavior and feeling powerless.
The thing is, our feelings are just the message – feeling crappy is just the message about how to change what’s happening. It’s our inner guidance system at work.
If we still feel crappy we haven’t found the truth or the power yet.
The anger, the fear, the frustration, the despair, the feelings of dread and doom even, they’re just the message. They’re our guidance about how to get what we care about creating or changing. If we still feel crappy then that just means we haven’t found the truth yet. Because as soon as we understand the message of our feelings, pfft, they disappear.
I promise you, getting rid of crappy feeling feelings is that simple. When we understand the message, we just don’t need the crappy feelings any more so they just disappear. If you haven’t experienced the speed and sheer relief of this yet, today might just be your lucky day. <3
If being open to understanding others is not part of your natural way of feeling – and it certainly wasn’t mine – then like me, you’ll get to choose whether you want to be willing to see what’s really going on behind any problem or behavior or situation that has you feeling crappy.
Our willingness to understand others – is that really a foundation of miracles? Can we really use that to influence what’s going on in our lives and in the world around us?
Let’s experience this for ourselves.
If you could pause for just a moment, smile a little even if you had to put a pencil between your teeth for a fake smile, and just wonder if it’s true or not “Is our willingness to understand others such a big deal that it’s actually the foundation of miracles?” Is that really true or not?
When you’ve finished wondering just get on with your day. Your own truth will come flowing into your mind at some point – now or later – and it will change EVERYthing…
It’s that simple.
The pencil thing? Smiling releases feel good hormones. When we can’t find a real smile, the pencil pulls our lips up in a fake smile. I’m not sure whether it works because we feel silly or if it’s really the position of the lips – but it does work. 🙂
Feel free to ask questions and comment on your experience in the comment section. You could also bring any questions you have into one of our free Events where we work on-line and live with people on a broad spectrum of happiness, healing and horse subjects. Here’s a link to info – what and when they’re happening – here.
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Today’s photo: Now there’s unconditional love in action. This photo of her dog Beau, who is a natural caretaker for the calves and other animals on her farm, was taken by Avis Falcinella from Perth in Western Australia. Every page in 30 Seconds to Change Your Life features something special about an animal and the people who love them.
