Only the tiniest percentage of riders have a magnetic riding seat that makes them safe on a horse when something unexpected happens.
Mag…netic
Can you hear my voice saying the word magnetic? It’s such an extraordinary word to use about riding. There’s only the tiniest percentage of riders who have ever experienced it, which is why I get so freaking excited about the way we make it routine here. It’s kind of like being sucked into the saddle and feeling like nothing can shift you out of it. It’s an extraordinary feeling and so very different to the way I was taught to ride that it’s like chalk and cheese.
We’re going to make you safe by giving you a magnetic, stuck to the saddle riding seat that just flows with your horse even when unexpected things happen.
AND you’ll achieve that with this 6 week program.
AND you’ll have my personal “love this program or get your money back” guarantee.
Valezka was a beginner rider on her very first trail ride ever when she experienced the benefits of a magnetic riding seat
And yes I recommend helmets when you ride.
How come falling off a horse got normalized?
I could just about scream with frustration when I see how being unsafe and falling off horses is normalized.
Falling off and getting hurt might be normal out there in the “normal” horse world, but it’s not normal here in our community and by the end of six weeks it won’t be normal for you either.
It SUCKS to fall off!
Here’s the thing. That inner voice that’s saying “there’s something not right here”, that nervousness as you’re putting your foot into the stirrup? It’s happening because you actually AREN’T safe and THAT is sooo easily fixed.
Let me explain what’s happening. If we can’t flow with our horse when something unexpected happens – i.e. if our riding seat is not magnetic – then even the slight anxiety we’re feeling about that, DISconnects us from our horse’s back and makes us vulnerable to a fall.
Then when we DO have a fall, the impact creates more tension in our bodies. I call it a fright imprint. That tension actually DISconnects us from our horse’s back a little more with each fall, which makes the next fall more likely – until eventually we’re an accident waiting to happen and our little inner voice becomes a bellow that’s screaming at us.
I’ve never met a bad rider. I’ve only met riders who have misunderstood their nerves, who have stresses and tensions that are stopping them from being magnetic in the saddle.
This is exactly what the ‘The Ultimate Confidence Booster’ offers you—6 weeks dedicated to getting rid of the emotional frights and whatever physical tensions that are stopping you from having that magnetic, glued into the saddle connection to your horse that Valezka was talking about when she wrote about just flowing with her very first spook on her very first trail ride.
Let’s talk about Cheryl ‘cos she was our first and very dramatic release of a fright.
Who could have guessed 17 years ago, that such a simple request in a horse clinic I was teaching, would change my life forever and hers too? Cheryl had always mounted from the near side and wanted to get her co-ordination happening for getting on her horse from the off side, because her arm didn’t work properly. She’d had a bad injury from a fall off her horse back in New Zealand, that had resulted in a thin and twisted looking, visibly damaged arm that was so weak that she couldn’t hold the weight of a cup of tea, let alone take the pressure of mounting.
It’s hard on a horse when we use them to practice something like that, so I had the idea to pull out my steel vaulting horse (a 44 gallon drum on 4 legs covered in carpet) and strapped a saddle on it so she could get her co-ordination happening without a horse first.
Picture it. Here we were, all the folks in the clinic surrounded by hay and horse stuff in one half of the shed and my husband’s mechanical workshop stuff in the other half. I’m sitting on a bucket beside the vaulting horse, holding the stirrup to make sure the saddle doesn’t move and Cheryl starts walking around to the off side to get on.
Blechhhh…. She started gagging, she felt so sick. As she stepped away from that feeling, she felt better. When she stepped forwards again to come to the off side, she felt sick again. The only way she she didn’t feel sick was to go to the near side where she’d been getting on when the accident happened.
Step by step she was guided by her own feelings to re-create the accident that had crippled her arm. We found the rhythm of approach the “horse”, feel yucky, stop, back away and get another layer of understanding of what had caused that terrible accident and more importantly, how to avoid it happening again.
She had got to the stage of standing up in the stirrup, when I noticed that she was leaning her full weight on her “crippled” arm and that it looked different. “Errr Cheryl… look at your arm”.
I still have this vision of her standing in the stirrup and lifting her arm up with a look of wonder on her face, swiveling her wrist from side to side and watching the blood fill the withered muscles and the arm seem to straighten in front of our eyes.
See… what happened that day was that she understood the purpose of the accident. The flood of understanding around why it happened – all of this released the emotional upset, the fright and the physical tension from it that had been stored in her body. The blood started flowing back into those muscles, nourished those cells and her body was able to heal the way it was designed.
Cheryl wrote on Facebook when with her permission I posted this article:
“My most clearest memory back to that is the joy. I remember my arm changing. I remember using it and then being surprised I was using it. The memory says I felt strength, my arm felt mine again and felt strong.”
Time after time we’ve seen similar things happen. We’ve worked with hundreds of people all over the world by distance over the internet, refined the process and got better at it. (At least I don’t remember anyone else wanting to vomit lol!) Everyone experienced relief, release of the tension and the subsequent often dramatic improvement in their riding seat. Some even had healing results as profound as Cheryl’s. I’ll put more people’s stories at the bottom of the page.
You too can get rid of your falls and frights, experience healing if you need it and find the safety of your own magnetic riding seat.
The Ultimate Confidence Booster is actually BEing safe.
“Love this program or get your money back”. It’s a guarantee that’s unheard of in the horse industry but one I’ve been enjoying giving since discovering the power of this work 15 years ago. I ask only that you attend the live sessions and come into this program with a willingness to do things differently – because we don’t achieve these kind of results by doing the same old thing in the same old way.
This is a 6-week group coaching experience designed for female riders over 40. It’s not that we’re excluding blokes, but our pelvis’s are different and the things that upset it are different too. This is not just about learning techniques; it’s about releasing frights and tensions from old falls, healing emotionally and physically, getting a magnetic riding seat and above all, finding the joy with your horse again.
Each week for 6 weeks you’ll have a live group session over Zoom with times organized to catch everyone on the program – with coaching from me to get rid of the fright imprints and tension that goes with them. We’ll also get rid of whatever is holding you back from your lovely natural magnetic, stuck to your horse’s back riding seat.
Here’s the secret of such dramatic improvements. Like with Cheryl’s jaw dropping healing of her crippled arm, world champion Kristine getting a confidence she’d never experienced before and beginner rider Valezka glued to her horse in her very first spook, I take people OFF their horse for the intensive internal work. That’s what makes your improvement automatic and effortless from that time on.
You can chuck practicing out the window. The effortlessness of the improvement is what Sandra was talking about when she wrote ” “Without practising or even thinking about it, the riding position has become automatic – kind of cool, as most things I have to repeat and work hard at, before it becomes a habit.” Gorgeous photo hey? What freedom!
Our “OFF the horse” is what makes that guarantee possible. This is how we can release and ELIMINATE those tensions or fears or anxieties, fix those stuck spots, brain glitches and uneven’nesses – release the tension from old falls, even traumas – re-program your brain and muscle memory – and give you a brilliant riding seat within that 6 weeks. Then we’ll put you back on your horse in way that is so special it gives me goosebumps thinking about it. We’ll talk more about that in a minute.
You can download the Zooms and keep them forever. You’ll have lifetime access to the video material I hand out as part of the course. The aim is to reconnect you—not just with your horse, but with the confident, joyful rider you want to be.
The future that’s yours if you want it.
It’s 6 weeks into the future. You’ve cleared your frights and falls and the tension that goes with them. You’ve found your magnetic riding seat, you’ve reproduced it effortlessly multiple times and you’re busting to ride.
Can you feel your horse like a warm hug as you settle into the saddle? Right now you will have taken my advice to take it slow and to focus on settling into your horse on your first rides with your new seat. You’re soaking up all those lovely feelings and allowing your horse’s subtle movement to bring your legs into their perfect place too and making that glorious feeling your new normal.
You might even get a burst of joy from your horse as they experience the new security of your riding position on their back. And if that happens I’ll be crying tears of joy with you.
And you’ll know that settling into this new way of being on your horse is not just for you either. You’ll be keeping the rides short and sweet to allow their muscles to build up properly so they don’t get sore as they’re using their back in a much stronger, healthier way.
I’ll give you some exercises to take your beautiful seat into the walk trot and canter later, but this first ride… this first ride is the stuff of angels.
BE and FEEL safe with the Ultimate Confidence Booster
Starts 2nd March 2026
Jumpstart with your free pre-program session now.
6 weeks for only $997 Aussie dollars with my personal “love this or get your money back” guarantee. There’s two 1/2 price scholarships available and payment options available to suit people individually if needed – email me if you need either.
We have stories and testimonials up the wazoo – here’s just some of them.
Emma after her fright imprint releases and finding her magnetic riding seat: “It felt like … we were merging into one being. Oooo is this what you mean by centaur riding?” “And no rubbing! I still can’t believe it. I have ridden this mare for almost two years and I would get an awful rub in the first five minutes EVERY time (I used to ride through it and give myself awful wounds. The last two rides — not a single bit of chafing at all!”
Later she wrote: “Oh my goodness! I just did the Connecting Heaven and Earth lesson and it was AHMAZING. Last year I made huge improvements in my seat and riding posture because I was able to take bareback lunge lessons, three times a week, on an absolutely amazing school master, for six months (pretty ideal). Doing one session of Connecting Heaven and Earth was just as good as, IF NOT BETTER than multiple bareback lessons. I think I found a spot of tension in my mid spine that has me leaning too far back — an issue I’ve not been able to fix no matter how much bareback riding I did. Yay! This course is so awesome! Thank you!” And yes you’ll be getting the heaven and earth lesson too.
Steve had a 3 and 4 star eventing career representing Australia. They were biiiggg jumps and biiiggg falls, some of them with serious injuries that he was still carrying twenty and thirty years later. Mannn have you ever seen the size and complexity of those 3 and 4 star cross country jumps? Those folks are crazy! After he’d released the many fright imprints and subsequent tensions from all those falls, he not only found his childhood ease in riding again, even the very old injuries healed.
J from AUS. She’d looked back to her childhood and yearned for the kind of ease she’d had back then of riding bareback around the farm on her pony. This is a photo of her doing exactly that. She found it again after releasing her fright imprints, cleaning up some old fears and finding her magnetic riding seat.
Clara was visiting us from the Yukon: She’d thought the stiffness was just old age. After she’d released the fright imprints and found her magnetic riding seat, she discovered a younger body that she’d forgotten. We also discovered the Holy Grail of dressage riders – the circuit of energy between horse and rider, that we’ve reproduced over and over again with many people.
Mary had just been complimented on her riding by an international teacher in a Vaquero clinic: “I just sat straight in the saddle and Sasha floated underneath me with us both working as a total unit together. Yeeha all due to the stuff that I’ve done with you. THANKYOU!”
Sue: If you ever can’t get to a live session, I teach you how to get the same benefit from a recording. Oh the power of it… Sue had a huge breakthrough from a recorded session and said: “Found my safe place. Tears streaming down my face. I had been looking for this for a long time though mostly not conscious of it.”
Leanne: You may have seen the video of her reaction on the Healing page here. She’d just released the fright imprint and the injuries from an incredibly bad fall 20 years earlier and was beside herself with wonder and joy at being able to move her body in the saddle. Life transformational stuff…
Jeremy from Korea had been a wwoofer at our place about 10 years ago. (Willing Workers On Organic Farms). This picture is from his first ever ride on a horse. He was so glued on Bobby’s back in his magnetic seat that the harder I pushed the deeper his seat bones went into the saddle. He’d done the seat work before I put him on Bobby but crikey – first time ever on a horse – and this is NORMAL here.
Sue McKibbin from Rokeby: “I watched Jenny in awe, as she helped both beginner and very advanced riders find their own unique place inside. Her ability to sense when the person was stuck or unsure is uncannily accurate. There were some very emotional moments as people released fright imprints, or gained insights into their own or their horse’s behaviour, but I think everyone has left with “Joy Imprints” in their place.“
We have dozens and dozens more but we gotta stop somewhere. 🙂
BE and FEEL safe with the Ultimate Confidence Booster
Starts 2nd March 2026
Jumpstart with your free pre-program session now.
All that for only $997 in 6 weeks with my personal “love this or get your money back” guarantee. There’s two 1/2 price scholarships available and payment options available to suit people individually if needed – email me if you need either.
Frequently asked questions:
I’m on the other side of the world from you, how will this work with the time zones?
When we know where everyone is, I work out the session times to suit. We’ve been doing this for 15 years and know how to make it work.
How can it work to get a riding seat like you’re talking about, in a chair?
The chair is the key to success. If we don’t have a magnetic riding seat and we’re on our horse, we’re already experiencing some stress and tension that makes it hard to do this incredibly special internal work. We’ve had 15 years of doing this successfully over the internet. I am so confident about this – “Love this or get your money back”.
Will there be recordings?
Yes. Both video and audio are available on Zoom recordings. You can download them and keep them forever. People typically find the recordings very powerful. Sue on the grey horse in the people’s stories above, made her breakthrough to feeling safe for the first time with a recording. I give you instructions on how to do that.
I’m not comfortable with Zoom. What if I’m shy?
Keep your camera turned off. I don’t need to be able to see you. I know that sounds weird, but my Feel for working with people is acute.
We’re going into cold winter / hot summer. How will it work then?
It’ll work beautifully because you can be comfortable inside. I’ll give you some exercises to do with your everyday horse care that will deepen your bond with your horse while you’re working on your riding seat in a chair. When we’ve got your magnetic riding seat happening, I’ll show you how to take that out to your horse and keep it.
How can you offer a money back guarantee like that when that’s not normal?
Because I’ve had 15 years of doing this successfully and am very confident in what we do. I was a very early internet adopter! 🙂
Can I make payments?
I like people to be in their financial comfort zone as well as their horse comfort zone. Email me if you need to schedule payments that suit your circumstances.
What do you get in the half price scholarships?
You get exactly the same as everybody else.
Do I have to have my horse with me for the sessions?
No, it will be nice for you though to have the means to video yourself after you’ve got your beautiful magnetic seat. I’ve got a page set up with suggestions on how to video yourself. It’s not necessary though.
Starts 2nd March 2026
Jumpstart with your free pre-program session now.
All that for only $997 in 6 weeks with my personal “love this or get your money back” guarantee. There’s two 1/2 price scholarships available and payment options available to suit people individually if needed – email me if you need either.
