I am shaking ma’ head. (Can you SEE me shaking my head in a “derrr” moment?) When will I understand that NOTHING I feel is wrong? That it’s only ever the STUCKNESS that causes problems?
If we’re jealous, we CARE about someone – is that pretty much true all the time? If we’re jealous, we’re trying to create something with them, is that true too?
Well… picture me leaning close and whispering the secret in your ear… jealousy is an alert that there is something that needs attention in that intimate relationship. It’s that simple. The results of finding what that is, will help us to create what it is that we REALLY want.
Jealousy is different from envy, which you’ll remember is about wanting some of what they’ve got.
The only thing “wrong” with jealousy is when we suppress it – push it down – when we get stuck in not understanding exactly what we need to know or do about this intimate relationship – going round and round in that crappy feeling manifesting loop that I keep drawing to your attention – that’s when the STUCKNESS itself stops you from creating the change that you’re looking for. That’s also when jealousy can intensify into anger and rage and maybe even getting ugly and destructive.
If you’re finding yourself stuck in this feeling, I’d love for you to bring this to a live event and find the sheer freaking JOY of understanding jealousy and getting back into the flow of creating what it is that you really want in an intimate relationship, whether that’s with this person or the soul mate waiting around the corner for you to get your inner guidance act together.
This lovely photo is by Michelle Brannan of Finding Grace Photography from Perth.