Sweetness and light – picture me sitting at my desk and snorting with laughter.
I’ve had lots of gorgeous interactions where I’ve felt someone else’s stuff and it’s all been sweetness and light – but my BIGGEST and most important change places have come from the other person behaving like an asshole or in a way that deeply upsets me. Understanding where THEY are coming from, understanding what’s going on behind THEIR behavior or problem, has taken me through MY change place and closer to creating that which I most care about.
So… have you come across any assholes that are helping you to get closer to changing the things that YOU most care about? Have you come across people committing assholery that are helping YOU to joyfully create something better? Maybe there’s even a PATTERN happening of attracting these sorts of people into your life?
Yeah it would change everything wouldn’t it, if every assholery was in some way linked to US getting what WE want – whether that’s a destiny, “what am I here on earth to do” thing or something yummy we’re creating – then holyshit it would change EVERYTHING, hey?
So… have we got anyone that we’d like to get curious about what’s BEHIND their assholery? Have we got anyone we might even want to THANK for their assholery some day? Yeah I’m snorting with laughter too.
This photo is from Costanza. I liked the expression on the bull’s face – he looks like he might have met the odd asshole too.